tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5094435955251783586.post8798335082378666588..comments2023-04-25T21:49:44.182-05:00Comments on Growing In His Glory: Why We May Be Damaging the Future of MotherhoodKeri at Growing in His Gloryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08020330355186954251noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5094435955251783586.post-24656744857098254272013-07-26T15:46:10.807-05:002013-07-26T15:46:10.807-05:00This is so important! I've noticed that in ge...This is so important! I've noticed that in general, when people ask me how I am, I tend to mention something negative--often something positive, too, but it seems like the negative gets more attention than it should. It's not always about my child, but sometimes it is. I'm trying to pay more attention and quit that!<br /><br />As a mother of only one child, ever since he was born I have heard parents of more than one complain about how rough they have it. It's especially upsetting when I am taking good care of my child (for example, reading to him or serving him healthy food) and other parents tell me how they gave up on doing that for their kids because they have more so it's too difficult or expensive--honestly, it sounds to me like, "I had more kids than I could take good care of," and that makes me sad for their kids!Becca @ The Earthlings Handbookhttp://articles.earthlingshandbook.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5094435955251783586.post-75340848362919437912013-07-24T16:43:31.472-05:002013-07-24T16:43:31.472-05:00I agree with Amy
When someone is expecting, they&...I agree with Amy <br />When someone is expecting, they're told "labor will be horrible." "You'll never sleep again!"<br /><br />The adorable baby arrives, the parent is told, "Just wait for the terrible twos!"<br /><br />The child is an adorable toddler, and the parent is told, "Wait till they're in grade school and sass back!"<br /><br />The child is a sweet grade school kid, and the parent is told, "Just wait till they're a rebellious teen!"<br /><br />The child is a devout, studious teen, and the parent is told, "Wait till they're in college - then they'll be WILD!"<br /><br />And so on . . . .<br /><br />When are Christians going to stop telling people how horrible parenthood is - when it's one of God's most wonderful gifts?Anna@stuffedveggieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12245156920636952275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5094435955251783586.post-79963685720136962522013-07-24T12:45:17.458-05:002013-07-24T12:45:17.458-05:00This is SUCH a great post. Having a bad attitude i...This is SUCH a great post. Having a bad attitude is something I struggle with. I've been irritated lately waking up often at night with a teething baby, but I know that needs to stop NOW! My son is such a blessing; he doesn't deserve a whiny, cranky mom.<br /><br />While I was pregnant with my son, I received so many negative comments about pregnancy and parenthood. Though, there were others in our families and church family who have been supportive and there for my husband and I every step of the way!<br /><br />I want choose my words wisely and encourage parents-to-be and people in general! Amy Whttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05683913769197406757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5094435955251783586.post-50999303526417121212013-07-24T09:39:36.301-05:002013-07-24T09:39:36.301-05:00I agree with Gabby, it is a delicate balance. Yea...I agree with Gabby, it is a delicate balance. Years ago, my pastor's wife told me to never talk bad about my kids, because people will already be forming judgements about our family. The don't need any ammunition! :)Jillianhttp://www.oliveplantsandcornerstones.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5094435955251783586.post-43748775540810771602013-07-24T08:00:11.348-05:002013-07-24T08:00:11.348-05:00It's a tough balance. I never want to be seen...It's a tough balance. I never want to be seen as the braggy mom who always has it together, but I also don't want to be the frazzled mom who always complains. I need to be transparent enough for my mom friends to see that I get it; I get how hard it all is, but it's something God enables me to do, by His grace. One thing is for sure though, as you have pointed out, it's important for our kids to see that we always view them as a blessing, no matter how difficult it may be to manage a home at times.Gabbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14429881962286637130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5094435955251783586.post-69669696698673773432012-09-05T13:10:50.945-05:002012-09-05T13:10:50.945-05:00Keri, you really struck a cord within me through t...Keri, you really struck a cord within me through this post. I definitely catch myself checking email and doing silly blog work instead of playing with my baby throughout the day. I really appreciate your sharing this today. I'm planning to bookmark it and re-read again later tonight. Choosing joy is oh-so-important, and was actually one of my resolutions this year. So blessed by this post.Thank you for linking up with Monday Mom Musings this week. I'm sure that many other ladies are loving this wisdom too! Jellihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09988158250488221291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5094435955251783586.post-91121220442994122942012-09-04T10:13:54.218-05:002012-09-04T10:13:54.218-05:00Oh yes, we all struggle with bad attitudes, becaus...Oh yes, we all struggle with bad attitudes, because motherhood GRATES against our selfish natures!!! You are right- the attitude described above (that children are only burdens) is a terrible attitude to pass on to our children, and nothing like what God says about home and family!<br /><br />I very much appreciated this post, thank you for the reminder!<br />I would add only one thing:<br />For me, when it IS hard and my children see my struggles and my warts and my bad attitude, I have seen God redeem that situation too- as He forgives and restores... and as my children learn to look to HIM for help with the battle against the flesh by my example (even on the bad days!)<br /><br />I wrote about this here:<br /><br />http://www.weakandloved.com/2012/07/my-weakness-his-strength-4-kiddo-will.htmlEmily Cookhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12014196267197823268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5094435955251783586.post-339607416254500532012-09-04T06:35:36.980-05:002012-09-04T06:35:36.980-05:00I am so glad you stopped by, Jill, and appreciate ...I am so glad you stopped by, Jill, and appreciate your kind comments. <br /><br />I pray for God to work in me each day to be the mom who shows to others how blessed motherhood truly is.<br />Keri at Growing in His Gloryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08020330355186954251noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5094435955251783586.post-88827471188970403112012-09-04T06:32:53.605-05:002012-09-04T06:32:53.605-05:00Thanks, Morgan. I'm glad you stopped by!Thanks, Morgan. I'm glad you stopped by!Keri at Growing in His Gloryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08020330355186954251noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5094435955251783586.post-46423087749683432512012-09-03T19:31:26.815-05:002012-09-03T19:31:26.815-05:00Excellent post!!! Beautifully written!!! I believe...Excellent post!!! Beautifully written!!! I believe that God is doing a mighty thing right now in this area in a lot of lives of moms with small children. Thank you for your wonderful articulation - it blessed me!!!<br /><br />Oh, and I just stopped by from Monday Mom's Musings and so glad I did!!! I'm following you now!!!<br /><br />Jill @ www.heartworkhomeschool.comJillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03442349263173270812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5094435955251783586.post-63367354543466032712012-09-03T16:36:13.589-05:002012-09-03T16:36:13.589-05:00Phenomenal post! Morgan @ http://www.forgivenforme...Phenomenal post! Morgan @ http://www.forgivenformerfeminist.com/Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16749660108677880614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5094435955251783586.post-91985780019818090382012-09-03T14:39:25.709-05:002012-09-03T14:39:25.709-05:00I've been feeling convicted about this too, Ke...I've been feeling convicted about this too, Keri! What a fantastic suggestion to give our children attention - instead of Facebook or e-mail!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15105397059274768638noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5094435955251783586.post-2497198601841114532012-09-03T09:18:35.226-05:002012-09-03T09:18:35.226-05:00I agree, Taara. At times I really have to watch my...I agree, Taara. At times I really have to watch my words especially when I'm struggling with a child with a bad attitude or reeling from an all-nighter with the baby. Attitude is key! Keri at Growing in His Gloryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08020330355186954251noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5094435955251783586.post-90709273076799131932012-09-03T09:00:01.842-05:002012-09-03T09:00:01.842-05:00What a great reminder! I have a few sisters (in-la...What a great reminder! I have a few sisters (in-law) that are just starting their families, pregnant or with newborns, and I really want to encourage them. Motherhood is a wonderful thing! Taarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12035109837441136992noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5094435955251783586.post-20600139405930098732012-08-31T13:42:44.040-05:002012-08-31T13:42:44.040-05:00Wow! At least your daughter wants to be a mother. ...Wow! At least your daughter wants to be a mother. I know she's only five but I wonder why she is set on adoption. Interesting. Keri at Growing in His Gloryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08020330355186954251noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5094435955251783586.post-39628733305624744622012-08-31T13:40:16.226-05:002012-08-31T13:40:16.226-05:00I completely agree, Marissa. I am always putting m...I completely agree, Marissa. I am always putting my big foot in my mouth and wishing I could think more before I speak. It's something I think we all have to work on. Keri at Growing in His Gloryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08020330355186954251noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5094435955251783586.post-7706703964106781172012-08-30T04:55:48.189-05:002012-08-30T04:55:48.189-05:00I never thought about it, but you ae right. My old...I never thought about it, but you ae right. My oldest at 5 years old (when i had been a single mom all of her life) told me that she would never marry and would only adopt. While adoption is a noble calling, that's not the thoughts about my future family that i remember having at her age...Triple Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01971703731523187983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5094435955251783586.post-35823197089305636502012-08-29T15:39:02.134-05:002012-08-29T15:39:02.134-05:00Oh I hear you - I often think (as soon as the comp...Oh I hear you - I often think (as soon as the complaint is out of my mouth) that I shouldn't have said that to her because she is thinking about starting a family. My biggest issue is that I am always looking for "me" time and then waste it on complaints! They admitting it is the first step...<br /><br />Marissa <br />http://forfunreadinglist.blogspot.comMarissa Writeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02557910393774076893noreply@blogger.com